Touching is in itself a form of non-verbal communication. It’s possible to reach a wounded heart with a touch. A gentle stroke can bring down walls of coldness. That’s the mystery in a touch if it’s used with skill.
Our sensual nature lives on from the moment we are born till death. This nature is what makes us desire to give sensually and receive in equal measure. Several studies have shown that this is a need right from infancy and childhood, and when not fulfilled, can lead to many personality problems.
Sensual massage can result in different fulfilling activities. This, thus sets sensuality apart from sex itself since the goal of sex is orgasm. However, the appetitive act of touch calls for entire active participation of a person’s soul and body. Being entirely connected to your soul mate is what it calls for. Sex must not necessarily happen after a sensual massage session. Sensual massaging can be correctly termed as the height of soul bonding.
The wonder in stroking affectionately is that it’s a mutual approach. In its essence, it brings about some great sense of healing, communication and bonding. The magic of touch is that goes deep into the heart, enabling one to emotionally explore their spouse.
The ultimate secret of appetitive touch is a mutual sacrificial attitude, where you are willing to please your partner all the more than yourself. It’s an act of giving and seeking to please your soul mate. Many touch therapies between partners have ended up in resentment because one partner felt that they were giving more than the other.
The spice that comes with sensual strokes is that, unlike in sex, boredom is very unlikely since it’s driven by the ever-changing nature of human emotions. Different times come with different emotions. Mundane moments during sensual massage sessions are, therefore, unlikely, due to the dynamic nature of the human soul.
Another rule of massage says that your body knows what your mind doesn’t. You are at the freedom of your sensual inclination during an appetitive stroking session. The hands are not called to be the only players in the game. Every part of your part should work along your hands. This has proven to spark constant excitement and an eagerness to look forward to the next massage session.
Just like the feeling a baby gets when being cuddled, rocked and stroked, the sensual rub-down sessions give a feeling of being safe and loved. The magic in feeling safe and loved is that it automatically builds trust which unveils deep hearty talks between couples. Where many other interventions might have failed, sensual massages have proved to salvage failing marriages through the art of a new way of intimacy, which brings healing and delves deep into the world of understanding and togetherness.